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she can’t see my bank account so it’s ok.
Mar 21, 2025

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"you're a girl now and no one can stop you from dressing like Doctor Who" hell yeah I would be ✨
Mar 21, 2025
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Taking my kid to the skatepark ✅
Mar 21, 2025
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just had a birthday and I've been thinking a lot about this - how I'm an "adult" but I don't feel like it, but what makes me that is that in the eyes of kids I look like I have it all together? that if I saw myself now I'd be like okay I'm an adult? or maybe it's just that I've learned a lot and got through the awkward stages they're in and now may only seem to have entered into this phase of being a whole grown person. or maybe it's just that I know more what I like and can dress myself and do my hair better after years of not figuring it out? maybe that's what it's about? like you said...they're not seeing my bank account...
Mar 21, 2025
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@BROOKS need this monologue whenever I don't feel enough 🫶
Mar 21, 2025
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@BROOKS when i was a kid i thought 19 year olds were the pinnacle of maturity tbh so it’s safe to say she would be proud of very far removed from 19 me…i really think part of being an adult is accepting there’s no one way to feel like one.
Mar 21, 2025
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@DEARDOVESWINGS exactly...I think we're never going to "feel" like an "adult" without letting go of our expectations/definition of what we think an "adult" should be
Mar 21, 2025

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while in the present — ‘hide’ that little piece of chocolate in your bag, ‘forget’ that $20 in your jacket pocket, ‘misplace’ a bundle of rolled goodness, and when you eventually rediscover the once forgotten, your future self will thank past you. there is only so much i can do in the present, still i never cease to look out for future me.
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i’d go back to when i was a child playing with my siblings and tell my younger self all the things she needed to hear/know
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