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having to raise a person from the ground up to be a kind, well behaved, intelligent and emotionally stable person sounds like the hardest thing ever, actually. But at the same time I want children and to be a mom sounds like the greatest thing ever too. Alexa play I think about it all the time by charli xcx
Apr 10, 2025

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it’s wonderful, it’s horrible
5d ago
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It’s the hardest thing ever yet the most loving and rewarding ever. It’s hard to explain why it’s so hard, but I often say being a mom isn’t hard necessarily, it’s everything else on top if it. Do I wonder if I’m doing something wrong? Every day. Do I worry about possible trauma they could incur? Too often. But I love them with every ounce I have and do my best. A perfect parent would even cause problems- you just have to be good enough.
Apr 10, 2025

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Having an online audience of any kind or a patreon is a huge responsibility, but I highly recommend making your way towards the goal of eventually having or making children. I’m a dada to a 2.5 year old little boy, named Dashiell (Dash) - with our little girl Meadow set to arrive in August. This is by far the hardest group project I’ve ever been a part of - I won’t mention the endless list of things we all see when millennials talk about how tired they are, or how their boobs hurt (mine don’t, but if you have boobs they will hurt bad) - but when he takes my hand and pulls me in the direction he wants to go, or makes fun of something stupid I did in front of him (he has a way of saying “ohhh, daaaaddaaa” which just levels me ) - I swear I’ve never felt a bigger or more true love in my entire life. Everything fades, everything dies, except the love of a child. Unless you really fuck with them, be good to your kids and love them a lot. I swear there’s nothing better than this, absolutely nothing. There’s nothing better than love, I swear.
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Just thinking is enough. No reason to follow through yet if ever. Think about it tho…all the little bonnets and tiny fists really get me going. I suggest a good long think sesh about children tagging along to your daily activities. Any age too..infant to toddler to a weird 9yo..possibilities are truly endless here
Feb 21, 2024
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i have two under two and i’ve never felt more vulnerable or in love with the world despite the calamities! i’ve never had more empathy or patience or compassion for all living things! i’m also so tired and hormonal rn so don’t make any rash decisions but so far it’s working for me ☆ ps. pregnancy and labor and delivery physically went very smoothly for me. i had freaky ppd the first time around but so far this time is just overwhelmingly wonderful?? results may vary.
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