Related Recs

⭐

small talk

the weather, traffic, where you're from. you don't need to always GET INTO IT with everyone.

@cs_sullivan

Jan 30, 2024

😃

Asking more personal questions when chatting N actually listening to the answers

i think everybody hates small talk, but everybody is also very different from each other, I guess it’s a matter of being understanding with the person or people you’re talking to at the moment. But I do think that personal questions and talking about real life experiences is what gets conversations going, it’s also what makes you remember people and want to reconnect with them. when talking to somebody new there’s nothing better to a first impression than someone who engages and listens. We get what we give so might as well give as much as we can.

@adrianhoz

Apr 2, 2024

🎉

don't overdo it

I totally get the temptation to ask insightful and thought-provoking questions but remember sometimes you need to keep it simple. If it's a loud party with lots of people, not everyone is going to want to have a super deep conversation with someone they just met. Small talk is annoying and tedious but sometimes it's a much-needed entry point. Meet some cool people, get their contact info, and then message them later with some big questions.

@spencerto

Jul 20, 2024

Top Recs from @dakotablue

🕶

telling yourself you’re living the dream

promotes positivity pro tip, dreams don’t always make sense - so when weird/bad stuff happens, you can shrug it off and be like wow what a weird dream bro 🤷

@dakotablue

Feb 6, 2024

👤

blaming everything wrong in your life on “the man”

@dakotablue

Jan 30, 2024

4

🫠

work in the service industry for too many years until it melts your mind so you make a 300 page graphic novel about all the weird stuff that went down

or don’t, i’m not like your manager telling you do some ”sidework” for real though service jobs are so crazy

@dakotablue

Feb 25, 2024