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Reframing boundaries as a way of holding myself accountable. Not setting boundaries with someone who knowingly may disappoint me. Instead establishing one with myself with the intention to assert my agency. This can also prevent the opportunity for me to potentially shift blame onto someone who is not responsible for my own actions.
(Note: this is NOT applicable in every instance. boundaries are important and can be enforced however necessary! this is my own personal reflection)
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To plans, to people, to myself. Boundaries. Enforced.
Feb 9, 2024
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Itβs healthy and if people donβt respect them itβs their problem
Feb 19, 2024
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itβs been strangely encouraging especially when i have to disappoint someone while setting boundaries.
Apr 29, 2024
Top Recs from @bears
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this list is so ridiculous but ask n u shall receive
β sushi platter - shrimp tempura, spicy crunchy salmon, California, eel, Alaskan roll, a few special rolls + bunch of fatty salmon belly and side of extra eel sauce
β Chicken katsu thin and crisp
β Real ass Italian sub
β Charcuterie board - mozzarella, manchego, Brie, Gouda, kerigold cheddar, drunken goat, goat cheese mixed with herbs, truffle cheese, Rembrandt, baguette slices, various herbed crackers, prosciutto, salami, mortadella, raspberries, strawberries, grapes, hot honey, chili crisp
β frozen grapes covered in lime and sugar
β Fried queso fresco
β shack stack with everything + shake shack fries with extra cheese sauce on side + their chicken nuggets
β Everything bagel toasted with lox tomato onion capers (from Absolute bagels)
β Chicken + tofu pad Thai
β Hella Crab Rangoon
β Kombucha - (canβt even begin to list)
β Seltzer (also many to list)
β Oat milk cappuccino (I have a few places to get the right one)
β Dirty chai from la cabra yesss
β Matcha latte
β Grilled pork BΓ‘nh mΓ¬ + iced coffee + taro shake + strawberry shake from Ba XuyΓͺn
β Bone in chicken soup with extra broth
β Chorizo + Al pastor tacos from truck + grilled onion on side + birria consumΓ© soup (many great options really)
β Greek ass salad
β Caesar ass salad
β Truffle gnocchi
β Squid ink pasta yess
β Wagu β give it to me however
β Full fucking filet mignon steak cooked medium rare
β Rabbit ragu
β Peking duck
β Fat tub of fresh quac with chips
β Caribbean smoothie from don pepe
β Chocolate lava cake
β Fresh tollhouse chocolate chip cookies slightly underbaked
β Dim sum
β [N1] from Xiβan famous foods
β Tub of banana bread pudding from magnolias bakery
β Good ass slice of pecan pie
β Assortment of pastries (fuck dont know where)
β fresh sourdough bread sliced and lathered in Irish butter
β Lemon bar
β Pastry dough stuffed with savory tasty shit idk
β Hot chocolate from city bakery omfg
β Soul food platter (no explanation needed I want it all)
β Double chocolate chip cookie from levain bakery
β Peach Celsius
β Masitas de Puerco, lime fries from Tepes kitchen
β Cheese itz
β Slice of chocolate pudding pie
β fermented/pickled stuff
β Thick Oreo milkshake with extra Oreos
β Vaso de futa with the works
β Greek ass gyro extra tzatziki on the side
β Pita chips + stuffed grape leaves
β artichoke dip + chip
I could go on but alas..
Edit: maybe I should make a more specific one later. I started and could not stop. im a foodie-- sue me!
Dec 22, 2023
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either a reminder to stop doubting your self, or a chance to sit down and be mf humble.
Dec 30, 2023