in
* being friends w me
* building community
* giving yourself & others grace and understanding
* reading more books
* drinking 2-3 glasses of wine and chit chatting
* drinking coffee at cute lil cafes and chit chatting
* laying down as often as possible
* going clubbing (maybe)
* being my friend
out
* being “too cool”
* caring what others think about us (save for constructive, good faith feedback)
* taking shots
* yachts / PJs / opulence / billionaires
* not being my friend
rec some of your ins/outs this summer ☀️