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If you're gonna get married, you gotta have skin in the game. None of this "the couple shared their vows privately before the ceremony" BS. it's supposed to be scary! it's supposed to be vulnerable! it's supposed to bring all the people you invited into your relationship, if only for a moment! and even though i've never gotten married, i've got to imagine that you would feel incredibly close to your partner after both baring your hearts and souls before a room full of people. what a thing to do together!
plus, as a wedding attendee, the reception is always way more fun when everyone's got serotonin coursing through their brains from watching you say really beautiful stuff. a far more important aspect of a good wedding than the hors d'oeurves.
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I think there’s something really sweet about people—especially those who don’t see themselves as writers—writing their own vows. They can be kinda messy and specific and it doesnt matter as long as the sentiment is true and I think that’s beautiful (this week’s newsletter is sorta about this).
Aug 2, 2024
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you mean to tell me this mans got me no matter what? that we made a vow in front of God and our closest friends and family and then celebrated into the night and now where ever life takes us we have each other? that we are one in the eyes of God? very cool and low key gave me a lot of confidence knowing i can commit to something that big.
Feb 1, 2024
so niche but I’m sorry this is the hottest thing a person can do and I don’t know why. Take notes engaged ppl
Sep 7, 2024
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its the best way to consume media. DONT show me a trailer DONT let me read the flap on the inside of the novel DONT tell me there’s even an alien in it. Dont tell me what it’s about just be like “it’s good you should check it out”
Jan 20, 2024
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just remembered you can do this. hell yeah.
Feb 22, 2024
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but god….i want to do this in a garage so bad….
Feb 7, 2024