This is hard to do, as a New York native, and someone who has been pretty much on the streets living life since he was a teenager — but recently, I have been trying to go out less. To go out less and stay home more is to show more mystery. It’s to talk less, and it is to make people miss you, and wonder about what you are up to. As someone who is pretty comfortable in any room, I tend to go out quite a bit. But I am beginning to retreat from public life as much as I can. This is not because I am tired of it, or because something nefarious happened, but because I think as a media figure, people start to get nervous when they see you too much. They start to wonder “what’s this guy’s deal?”New York is a city of dreams and relationships, but it is also a city of mystery. It can be big and small at the same time. So, you might want to chill out for a few months. I haven’t had a night out in the Greater Dimes Square Area in a while and I plan to keep it that way — at least until next spring. I’ve been going out in Harlem again — the neighborhood that raised me, and it has been just fine. Post less on social media, be quieter about your personal life, go out a tad bit less, and you’ll find that when you do jump back out, people will be excited to see you.