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if youre in your early-mid 20s just do this. dont pretend to yourself you will stay forever just look for a job in your field or transfer offices or whatever and find 1 year accomodation. different city different country (easier visa short term) you will build some kind of character then just come back its no big deal everyone will be happy for you
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she was starting grad school, I said can I come with? still here 6+1/2 years later.
doing a big move with someone I trust made the process less daunting, and we knew there was no commitment to live together for forever
When I'm done with my stint in grad school, I'll probably do something similar: find someone moving to join in with, or wait till a friend in a city is looking for a new lease/roommate and suggest I move in with them
Wishing you safe transit to a happier place <3
Feb 9, 2025
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- don't expect to live in Manhattan
- try to have work lined up ahead of time (harder for intl, ik)
- move here with less stuff so you can be more flexible with your living situation (it was easier for me at least)
Apr 19, 2024
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i actually don't recommend this it's stressful and exhausting and makes you feel sort of landless and like a drifter (not in a fun way)
Jan 26, 2024
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there is so much to learn
Jan 23, 2024
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the time will pass and the memories will be tender
Feb 5, 2024
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no one knows but you and it feels soooo right
Feb 8, 2024