Whenever I find myself thinking too much about how I cannot collect all of my past, I think abt the junk lady from labyrinth and it scares me back into the present. journal, take photos, write down the important things that happen, but do not wallow in them. all the time you spend looking back over your shoulder is time you’re taking away from what’s right in front of you. new memories will come. The most important memories will never slip away. time is something you’re still in the middle of. and how exciting it is to change !