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think less, do more

I used to feel that way a lot but honestly once you're with the people you like and something funny happens or you try a new thing at a new place you remember like "oh this is life". I don't know if that makes sense but sometimes feelings get complicated when you think about them. Feeling deep connection will ebb and flow with all people you know. I don't think things have to be deep to matter. Just experience it all and have fun with the little superficial things too.

@moonbeams

Jan 25, 2025

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transparency is not the same as intimacy

This was really impactful for me; the analogy is, your life/your heart is a room (or an apartment, a space, etc) and relationships are all about inviting people into that room. Intimacy is letting them into the room and knowing that they might touch stuff, move furniture around, or change the way you’ve laid the room out. Transparency is letting people see the room, but keeping a glass between them and the space— they can see, but not touch. I think relationally we all have impulses toward transparency instead of intimacy, and it’s easy to say “I let you look at my room, that was intimacy,” while maintaining the glass that separates people from the room. Be intimate! Let people pick up the tchotchkes in your heart and move the furniture.

@nadiyaelyse

May 28, 2024

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leading with intention

big moves with big feelings this will be more fruitful

@liver

Feb 4, 2024

Top Recs from @liver

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being corny

shame is out for 2024 send them that instagram poem, silly cat tiktok, the unbashful love song that makes you think of them put your heart at the forefront of your actions

@liver

Feb 4, 2024

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leading with intention

big moves with big feelings this will be more fruitful

@liver

Feb 4, 2024

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personality quizzes

please let me take a silly little quiz to tell me what dog to adopt or what celebrity im going to marry.

@liver

Feb 6, 2024