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let the people think thoughts about you. it’s kinda cool that a version of you is hanging out in their minds.
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an amazing thing about the dichotomy of attention whores is ur so in the moment abt being odd that u r making real memories for ur future self but also the self that says i enjoy the eyes and then u can look back at ur memories and know u were doing for the simulacra of screens but the simple enjoyment of those passing by- an to be a clown. to live the life of the jest u gotta commit to the bit, the bit by bit of our flesh and bones which means to mean i am saying, really being cool being a dynamic verb not a stative verb is the vibe.
Sep 17, 2024
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We tend to mask ourselves in order to make others comfortable and fit in. Just be weird and shit, who cares…
Feb 22, 2024
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to cultivate the mystery and make people wonder about your rich inner life
Mar 14, 2024
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“self-worth becomes a hostage to professional accolades and achievement”
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“Focusing on someone outside their career encourages a culture where people feel valued for who they are, not just what they do”
what are your thoughts?
i agree to a certain extent. it depends on the delivery of the question as well.
most of the time you can tell if someone is genuinely interested in who you are as a person. asking about somebody’s job can provide a lot of insight into a person’s interests and general character - i think it’s fine for your job to be an aspect of your identity.
i could also tangent into why capitalism may have an influence on why this question is asked so frequently..
i do find myself struggling with gauging the intentions behind this question sometimes; which often makes me less emotionally open and usually filters a potential friendship into a professional/transactional relationship immediately.
Feb 5, 2024
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been doing this more in my everyday life. respectfully ofc. some things i’ve received/am receiving recently from simply asking for it 🤭:
- free cocktail!
- free ride (i don’t drive)
- awesome music reccs
- pretty styling pieces for a potential future shoot :)
- the beginnings of a fun and crafty project
- beautiful bloomers
- new friends to hang with
grateful for the people who are so giving. makes me want to pay the deed forward. and i do.
Mar 27, 2024
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letting go of the past. letting go of unrealistic expectations. letting go of your ego. letting go of the wounds you still hold. release and create space in your heart and mind and soul to allow healing and love into ur lifeeee :)
Apr 2, 2024