My brain can’t handle it all I can do are two-strand rope braids. Actually I’m going to say style my hair or do updos in general for the most part. I can’t even use a round brush and my hair stylist banned me from hot brush stylers 😪
choose a band you like. look up the label and listen to everything else under it that you havent heard 🤝 google the label owner, see if they have their hands in other labels. if yr lazy, lurk ur friends spotify playlists <3
if i am presented with an intrusive thought about ppl who do not like me for my past mistakes (they're probably not thinking about me key word intrusive) i shift my focus onto my friends who love me for who i have grown into (less unhinged) it is freeing 🕊️