Feb 12, 2024
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i try to maintain a certain level of elegance even during my most schizzed out periods
Nov 17, 2023
I was thinking about this recently that 70/60s makeup (twiggy makeup) and hair (specifically beehives) would look killer with some 2014 tumblr clothes… just food for thought but it would be kinda cool! i’ll probably try it soon..
don’t let urself be tied down to 1 aesthetic and don’t be afraid to be messy!!! life’s messy so why shouldn’t ur style? it’s cool shit like free will that makes life cool
Feb 24, 2025
And wearing casual lowkey clothes most of the time so that every time you do put on just a normal amount of makeup and wear a dress people you see regularly in your day-to-day life treat you like a movie star or the hollywood homely girl in a 2000s movie who just got a makeover. ‘Why look at you you’re… beautiful‘ bonus if you regularly wear glasses and swap them for contacts. This is a part of my general life practice of under promising and over delivering
Apr 12, 2024
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I don't know how well this actually answers your initial question, I think it's more of a counterpoint to some of the stuff people have already said, but here it goes.
In the past (prior to social media or search engines) specific styles, specialized knowledge, and niche awareness actually took effort. You had to go out into the world and find a scene, be accepted, participate in it, contribute to it, and learn from others with specific knowledge within the specific sub- or counter-cultural scene. It took time, effort, and experience to craft an identity. Nowadays people cycle through various identities and trends like commodities because it takes no effort (they're sold to them by social media algorithms, influencers, brand accounts, etc.). It comes to you in your phone without you ever even having to leave the house or put in the time to discover it or participate in it (you just follow specific people or subscribe). You can be a passive observer or consumer, not an active contributor. As a result, you're not invested or tied down and committed to that core identity. You can cosplay depending on your mood or who you want to momentarily convey yourself as, because it's easy. Essentially, being a poser has become normalized. An identity is now something to be momentarily consumed and affected, rather than grown, built, and developed over time.
Granted, it's always been different in regards to "mass" culture and popular trends (both in the past and now). Those are impossible to miss and were always monopolized by specific trend setting institutions, but always by the time it gets to that point, the actual initial counter- or sub-culture that inspired it has already been coopted and has started to disintegrate under the weight and attention of mass consumption.
Feb 18, 2024
It's an action deserving of its own nickname. My cat's name is Gomez, but when he crosses his paws like this, he turns into Hodgkins Plumpersocks.
Feb 2, 2024
I feel like everything about this photo captures that unique period of time - the covid masks, the protest signs, the boarded windows, the national guard.
I look at it now and I still feel glimmers of the hope I felt in that moment, when the rigid and all encompassing oppressive and systemic ruts of society felt like they were becoming more plastic and might even come undone. However, in retrospect, I am of course also hit with the ultimate disappointment, betrayal, and futility of it all.
So in that sense, it really captures that hovering sense of disillusionment and hope that I'm perpetually caught between within my day to day life.
Mar 30, 2024