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sexy is a mindset

and it DOES matter. if you know who you are, what you stand for, pursue what you enjoy, and generally just approach life and others with openness and humility you’re gonna attract folks who vibe with your way of being

@royallmonarch

Oct 12, 2024

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kindness is sexy

My friends would say that my type is medium ugly but truly I go for kindness over anything, and have no physical type - it’s all about kindness and understanding. If someone makes me feel comfortable in their company by being patient and non-judgmental, and being emotionally open and communicative, then i am way more likely to be attracted to them - kindness is what’s sexy to me, nothing to do with actual looks. Remember, sexy is subjective. e.g, abs on a man do nothing for me, I’d much rather a dad bod even on a physical only level. Beauty standards are made up and strange. And often times, it’s charisma, humour and kindness that make me feel that someone has sexy energy.

@evet

Oct 12, 2024

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Being obsessed with myself

You want to know what I’m fucking with right now?? MYSELF! Nothing makes me feel more powerful than when I feel good about myself. I’m certainly no stranger to feeling down about myself or not believing in myself, but I can usually pull myself out of those slumps with a face of makeup and a great outfit. Put on those jeans!! That skirt!! Those shoes!! Whatever makes you feel hot as shit, feeling hot is one of the only things we have anymore! I feel hot in black tights and a black skirt! Throw it on, and own your socially-distanced gathering!!! YOU are smart, cool, funny, and stunning!! And make sure to tell your friends they’re hot too!

@molly-yelon

Mar 16, 2021

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Sobriety

Ive been sober for a year and five months. It hasn’t been an easy road, but it has changed my life, and I am incredibly grateful.

@real_goulash

Feb 25, 2024

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Removing expectation

Slowly learning the value of removing expectations from work and life. I’ve spent years trying to control the outcome of situations with no pay off and feeling burdened by something not being perfect. We are not meant to excel at every single thing. It’s okay to relax and enjoy the process.

@real_goulash

Mar 27, 2024

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Riding the bus/Train with no destination

I used to do this often and get off some place new for coffee and food. Great way to find new digs.

@real_goulash

Feb 14, 2024