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Come take a look at my life rn

not even kidding, come join me in a heap on the floor In the mean time….When Harry Met Sally, Portrait of a Lady on Fire, and Paul Blart Mall Cop make me ugly sob every time for vastly different reasons. Sam Smith’s The Thrill of It All album can get me going. The music video for Adam Lambert’s Another Lonely Night evokes such raw nostalgia and sadness, too.

@its_just_kate

Jan 13, 2025

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watching a cheesy romcom

especially if you’re not feeling so hot, mentally and/or physically. i woke up today feeling yucky and heavy in my heart and body, but i just rewatched Love at First Sight (2023) on netflix and had a good cry and i’m feeling a little better now. it’s on days like today that i’m grateful romcoms exist! i used to call romcoms my guilty pleasure, but today i will declare that i unabashedly love romcoms!!!! they may be unrealistic at times, but in doing so, they remind you to believe in a world where love is everywhere, all the time (because it is) <3 if you have some fav romcoms, drop them in the comments! would love to watch them :)

@memoryquilt

Sep 23, 2024

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In the mood for love

Even though I can’t get through it without bawling my eyes out

@strawberrylamb

Aug 27, 2024

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A think piece on why we need to stop asking “what do you do for work?”

“self-worth becomes a hostage to professional accolades and achievement” … “Focusing on someone outside their career encourages a culture where people feel valued for who they are, not just what they do” what are your thoughts? i agree to a certain extent. it depends on the delivery of the question as well. most of the time you can tell if someone is genuinely interested in who you are as a person. asking about somebody’s job can provide a lot of insight into a person’s interests and general character - i think it’s fine for your job to be an aspect of your identity. i could also tangent into why capitalism may have an influence on why this question is asked so frequently.. i do find myself struggling with gauging the intentions behind this question sometimes; which often makes me less emotionally open and usually filters a potential friendship into a professional/transactional relationship immediately.

@zi

Feb 5, 2024

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just asking for the shit you want

been doing this more in my everyday life. respectfully ofc. some things i’ve received/am receiving recently from simply asking for it 🤭: - free cocktail! - free ride (i don’t drive) - awesome music reccs - pretty styling pieces for a potential future shoot :) - the beginnings of a fun and crafty project - beautiful bloomers - new friends to hang with grateful for the people who are so giving. makes me want to pay the deed forward. and i do.

@zi

Mar 27, 2024

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letting go

letting go of the past. letting go of unrealistic expectations. letting go of your ego. letting go of the wounds you still hold. release and create space in your heart and mind and soul to allow healing and love into ur lifeeee :)

@zi

Apr 2, 2024