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public vows

If you're gonna get married, you gotta have skin in the game. None of this "the couple shared their vows privately before the ceremony" BS. it's supposed to be scary! it's supposed to be vulnerable! it's supposed to bring all the people you invited into your relationship, if only for a moment! and even though i've never gotten married, i've got to imagine that you would feel incredibly close to your partner after both baring your hearts and souls before a room full of people. what a thing to do together! plus, as a wedding attendee, the reception is always way more fun when everyone's got serotonin coursing through their brains from watching you say really beautiful stuff. a far more important aspect of a good wedding than the hors d'oeurves.

@evan

Jan 26, 2024

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I’ve rejected many milestone life experiences

and fumbled attempting to chase others. I regret sometimes that I missed out on so many normal common experiences and think that maybe if I had engaged in them I could be normal but then I wouldn’t be the person I am. I will say and this is controversial and you can stone me in the public square for saying it if you want… I recognize and respect their importance in people’s cultures and that they mean something to others but I don’t care about weddings FOR ME personally. I didn’t grow up dreaming of my perfect wedding day and the idea of hosting an event dedicated solely to myself and my betrothed where we’re the center of attention makes me feel mortified. I don’t need to declare my love in front of everyone. Also the concept that your wedding is the best day of your life instead of every day that you get to be with your spouse and the memories you make together thereafter is depressing to me. But I’m pragmatic and not one to romanticize things…

@taterhole

Apr 17, 2024

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prematurely choosing your wedding dress

yes i’m single…

@0livia

Mar 21, 2024

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having a private life

People are so obsessed with fame- but being looked at by strangers all the time is not what its cracked up to be. move to the woods, eat a sandwich, be at peace with yourself

@magdilettante

Jan 18, 2024

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Kate middleton should come back via a PI feature

@magdilettante

Mar 17, 2024

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Anchovies

Free your mind. They’re delicious.

@magdilettante

Dec 21, 2023