Feb 24, 2024
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for all the glorification of “yapping” there is also something to be said for just not speaking. very often your best course of action is to just shut the fuck up. you gotta become okay with the idea of “sitting this one out,” playing your cards close to your chest, moving in silence like lasagna, etc etc
loose lips sink ships!!!!
Mar 16, 2024
I often dress my daughter to mimic me, but on some days she requests it for herself (hats and loose jeans and layers and shirts with cars on them). Letting her figure out her personal style at 3 is exciting and adorable.
At the park today, when she took off her jacket and hoodie, she was running around in a Cars t-shirt and the hat and a lady approached me and said “Wow he sure does have long hair for a boy!” to which I corrected her and explained that she’s in fact a girl, to which she said “Well why do you have her dressed like that then?”
…sigh…
Look, my wife and I aren’t the type to be offended by the accidental misgender, it happens with kids all the time. But what does bother me is that it’s clear she started the convo only to critique the clothing choices that my daughter, a literal 3 year old, made. It got me thinking like…how sad do you have to be to go out of your way to release the inner dialogue you have in your mind, knowing that you’re only doing it to start issues? Really would have taken no energy to not say anything at all!
I politely dismissed myself from the convo and we moved on to the swings, but I do think everyone should consider just keeping quiet more often. There’s no need to say certain things. I wasn’t bothered by it, but I can imagine that someone else could have been and that would have been its own fun conflict to resolve.
I guess the elementary school proverb still holds true today: If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all!
Sep 9, 2024
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Is your opinion or hot take providing any clarity or enriching anyone’s life? Or is it simply providing a piece of supporting evidence to assert someone else’s insecurities, toxic behaviors and thought patterns? Maybe it’s time to try shutting the fuck up. ☮️
Feb 12, 2024
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Mar 6, 2024
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This was one of my new years resolutions: creating more stuff and not being satisfied by simply consuming media, art, coffee etc.
I felt like I was floundering and too caught up with work to really find the time to explore this side. I should also preface this by saying I'm definitely not someone who identifies as a creative person. However, pi.fyi has been a cool way to do this with no risk or fear. Sure, my posts are dumb jokes and it's completely meaningless but it makes me feel alright and it's fun to interact with you freaks.
thank u friends <3
Mar 26, 2024
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this guy threw a cigarette butt into a flower bed i tried to give him a concussion via dark karmic debt
Aug 15, 2024