i think everybody hates small talk, but everybody is also very different from each other, I guess itโs a matter of being understanding with the person or people youโre talking to at the moment. But I do think that personal questions and talking about real life experiences is what gets conversations going, itโs also what makes you remember people and want to reconnect with them. when talking to somebody new thereโs nothing better to a first impression than someone who engages and listens. We get what we give so might as well give as much as we can.