Rec | BEING UNCOOL

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it is so freeing to not have your ear to the ground of what is on trend or hip for the time being, and tbh I have saved myself a lot of time, money, and perhaps sanity for just not leaning into being too plugged in, some tangible examples: - no flimsy impulse purchases, mainly tangible well made things (clothing, electronics, furniture) - reading very little, but just enough news to know what’s going on, avoid entertainment news/snark/discourse machines - do things cause I feel like it (dance, laugh loudly, smile) and enjoy it all, never act like I’m above it all

@aidanaguirre

Feb 26, 2024

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