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Many years ago my friend Nico and I used to watch these videos Isaac Mizrahi made where he'd answer fansā€™ questions. A lady in the Midwest was like, ā€œI live in a small town where nothing stylish ever happens, and I need a new look.ā€ Isaac was like, ā€œHereā€™s what youā€™re gonna do. Youā€™re gonna find the most expensive hairdresser in your town, youā€™re gonna give him all your money, and youā€™re gonna let him do whatever he wants to you.ā€ I think that is the best advice Iā€™ve ever heard. It has really stuck with me even though Iā€™m not a lady, Iā€™m not from the Midwest, and I donā€™t need a new look.
Feb 27, 2024

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