Sheās has been my best friend for about 8 years and she is genuinely the most important person in my life. She is so immensely compassionate and full of love to give. She is always able to find something to love in everyone, even the most unlikely characters, and she actively chooses to see those traits in people above all else.
Sheās an artist above all else. One of the queerest bitches I know, so sexy, so full of rizz. She has extremely based politics and would trust her opinion on aaaaalmost anything (we have our disagreements about food JAJAJ). She has a very complex, personal music taste that is very private and I have gotten to know very slowly over time. Sheās studying architecture and tho this is one of the banes of her existence, I think she loves it. Her attention to detail in everything in life is CRAZY: she is very sensitive, observant, and really really really smart. This also means she is insanely good at everything she does. She knows a lot about a lot of things so itās impossible to get bored talking to her. Everyone likes Aurora and she is the kind of person where if someone doesnāt like her, thatās a red flag about them. Also everyone wants her because she is so charismatic and dances so so so fucking well.
We have dated twice in the past, broken up for circumstantial factos, and currently have a bit of a very queer non-monogamous arrangement where we like to be flirty and sexy eith each other, but we have no interest in dating and we actually have been in multiple relationships since our break up. We have learned everything together and I hope to continue to be able to learn and grow next to her forever.
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Anna and I have been friends since we started university three years ago and we have just gotten closer and closer everyday.
We are both the horniest genderqueers you will ever meet and are always on the look out for cute queer people to get dreamy over and giggle. We are very reliable companions, braving The Horrorsā¢ļø together every single day. My life would be impossible without Anna.
Anna is a business boy ironically. Like, they are Patrick Bateman with pronouns. Anna is EXTREMELY BASED and knows a shit ton about politival history everywhere almost. Theyāve also been queer for forever, so they know a lot about that too and have taught me a lot about being queer.
Anna is also really funny, really smart, really kind, full of love to give, very considerate, very stylish, and very driven. They are a blessing to have in my life and I think everyone need an Anna. We are such an iconic duo.
Mar 2, 2024
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I met Laura at a queer event in the community and instantly had a crush on her (many such cases; having a crush on Laura is a rite of passage in our friend group). Extremely stylish emo girl with a very gentle and cunty energy to her, amazing sense of humor, carries herself with so much love and so much care. She radiates everywhere she goes.
I have a profound admiration for Laura because sheās driven as fuck, extremely resilient and strong, SUPER FUCKING SMART, and takes no bullshit. Laura is strong. Laura is really strong.
Passionate STEM baddie, based politics AF, down to anything, LOVES Minecraft, has an excellent music taste that is all-to-vast for me to fully understand, but sheās found her people for that. Also, she has like all these really cute and funny mannerisms that distinguish her a lot. I love her.
We have shared some very extremely tender moments together and kept each other sane through some of the hardest moments of our university life. Sheās one of thise friends I will always be happy to see no matter how long itās been. I feel extremely privileged to have her in my life, and if you have a Laura in your life, you should too and you better be loving her properly.
Mar 3, 2024
sheās not on this app but it feels impossible for me to have a space without her leaving an impression on it, so iām adding her to my recs myself
we met our freshman year of college, started rooming together, and then moved into an apartment together after graduation. she has truly seen me at my absolute best and my absolute worst and she has never once made me doubt how much she continues to care about me through it all.
she is one of the smartest people i know. not only intellectually, but also in a wise āi look up to the way she interacts with the world and treats people in itā way. she is hilarious. she is fiercely caring, which is something i eternally admire. her care for me in situations where i show myself no grace and refuse to stand up for myself has taught me so much about my own worth. even if it takes me a long time to realize it.
i dread the day i am no longer just steps away from her bedroom door. but i can not wait to see all of the amazing things this life has to offer her. and i hope i get enough chances to earnestly tell her that she is an amazing thing to happen to me.
Feb 24, 2025
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New follower? OOP! Does that men we're getting married?
You re-rec'd me? You want me so bad let's make out.
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PI.FYI dating-app mode when???
Oct 15, 2024
My last break up left me feeling super neglected so I got together with a friend and we went to the beach together. I cooked for us and she drove. We spent the day there and it was just so nice to be under the sun and to feel the wind on my face and under my dress. I pretended to be a middle-age divorcƩ who leaves her family to feel young and free again by the beach, smoke, read, drink, dance, and flirt with hotties.
None of that happened ofc, we just went to the beach and ate home-made burgers, but having a friend to entertain my delusion and hang out at the beach was equally as healing. I will bever forget that day
Mar 16, 2024
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A little personal, but being non-binary, I grew up very dissociated from my body and my time, so I donāt remember a good chunk of my formative years and have retained none of my hobbies. Recently tho, I have been trying to piece myself back together, so I have been spending a lot of time on my own. Another thing about me is that I have crushes everywhere I go, so I spend a lot of time loving others. After breaking-up with an ex that made me feel very neglected qnd unappreciated, I decided that I was going to give myself as much love and attention as I give my crushes and lovers. This has changed me.
I just let myself feel my feelings and get carried away by them. I get myself little treats and flowers, I get myself little treats and gifts. I organize little fun dates/plans for myself where I engage in new hobbies. Small manageable things that donāt feel too overwhelming to learn, like decorating Altoids tins with collage or journaling. By letting myself navigate the world through my feelings, Iāve discovered what I like, dislike, and developed little rituals and habits that I can then tell other about and share.
Social media has helped me that way, surprisingly. I treat my instagram like a scrap book and use it to document my feelings with shitposts and photos; the visual story telling makes me appreciate the little things. Pinterest allows me to collect things I like and develop a taste with no effort and no consequences, and I end up with huge pin boards full of pictures and art I love and that make me feel particular things I can name and explore. This app has been good for that too.
It takes time, love, self-compassion, and trust. Trust that the love others give you is legitimate. Trust that you are liked for a genuine reason. Trust that the mundane is magical by itself, love it for that. Trust that you donāt need to be special to be worthy of love, you can just be a person and thatās really cool <3
Mar 11, 2024