i am a person that holds a very montone, strong, blunt tone.
i also know i am a very honest person
people take my words as a form of aggression, disagreement, and me saying i am right
unfortunately i donāt change for people (talking about changing my tone)
but i am willing to understand and hear both sides
iāve gotten into āargumentsā with majority of anyone in my life
and i swear if people just listened to what i said and now how i sounded, i would be more āagreeableā
so when youāre chatting with your parents or someone you donāt know well, try to take regard for what words are coming out their mouths.
they may sound uninterested or a hater but their words may be actually redeeming