Historically, Iโve always chosen flight over fight in most scenarios: Iโve quit several toxic jobs <6 months in, am usually the person to end a serious relationship, and have moved cities a few times. Right now, though, Iโm in a period where Iโm trying to reset my mindset and stick with things through the initial signs of discomfort (currently feeling that way in all big aspects of my life: job that kinda sucks a few months in, rough patches in my live-in relationship, and just generally feeling meh about living in New York FT). Still very much in the thick of it, but my strategy is to just take each day as it comes and reframe discomfort and uncertainty as necessary parts of life and not things to just flee at the first signs.
