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my neighborhood bars of the moment

Barbes in park slope..world music every night, all ranges of ages, $5 red stripe, the only place in my neighborhood I feel like I could run into someone I know Canal Bar in gowanus..I’m from chicago so of course I love the chicago bar. But it really is a good dive with big backyard and lots of regulars (also there’s malort) Sunny’s..if you know the charm of Sunny’s you know. also music every night, I’m always down to go to red hook because of this bar

@sofias

Jan 28, 2024

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bar spot :P

roomie and i were taken to this amazing bar in college town <3 omigosh it was amazing and very gay woohoo

@jama

Feb 3, 2025

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space bar

really cool themed bar, think they only just opened months ago and i got a yelp ad for it when i was in town. the owner was behind the bar and she was the nicest person ever. the attention to details of this place is insane, from glasswares to decors to the fact that every drink on the menu has some kind of homemade ingredient in it the whole bar at some point bonded over saltburn / jacob elordi / barry keoghan the night i was there so all 10-ish of us ended up sitting and chatting together and the people working joined us as well—i’m getting specific but i have a feeling this isn’t a standalone event!!

@gomizhou

Feb 17, 2024

Top Recs from @ener

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Date your friends

(Not literally.) I’m of the belief that platonic relationships are just as important as romantic ones. Build a community of folks who meet you where you are and with whom you feel safe and vice versa! In a perfect world they see all versions of you from rock bottom to ascending, not unlike the intimacy usually reserved for a lover. Fuck that heteronormative bullshit. Do that with your friends. They will give you grace and hold you accountable for foolishness. If you don’t have people like this, go out and make them. This late night shower thought brought to you by a conversation with a cishet male Uber driver who really needs to love himself more.

@ener

Mar 4, 2024

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Time really does heal all wounds

Work on yourself. Figure out your own likes and dislikes. Date yourself with such vigor, as if you were dating a new lover. That coupled with time passing ought to work wonders.

@ener

Mar 15, 2024

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cheeseburger

This specific meal brought me back to life in the middle of the storm and made me forget my jeans and boots were soaked from the rain Egg creams for life

@ener

Apr 4, 2024