One of the most romantic connections I’ve ever had in my life was someone who acknowledged how “brilliant” and mischievous my mind is. (They ghosted me BUT) I’ve been kinda going through some shi and made a list of why I love my brain. Really deep diving into why I like the way it thinks and categorizes things and keeps me focused or distracts me, etc. It’s been cool to observe yourself from a distance like that. It’s also nice to just give yourself some credit. “I love that I can laugh at it and say, “I hate you for that”, but what I really mean is, “thanks for keeping my life interesting””.