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open invite

I celebrated my 21st in January There’s a bar near my university that has “wine Wednesday“ which is $5 for a really heinous bottle of wine. Most ppl go regularly already bc there’s pool, cheap drinks, and it’s within walking distance of campus. Vibes are less than great but that’s beside the point lol. My 21st fell on a Wednesday, and all I knew is that I did not want to get my expectations up. That would only lead to birthday blues. So I figured I would just invite my inner circle to come celebrate with me at wine Wednesday. Which turned into me inviting anyone i thought was cool/ wanted to be friends w. My close friends also brought their respective friend groups. I got dressed up cute, got to the bar at 10, and throughout the night got to say hi to ppl as they came and went. it took all the pressure off of me to entertain or make sure ppl were getting along. bc everyone had their own peeps to talk to and different activities to entertain themselves w. The bartender gave me free shots and the DJ let me play whatever I wanted. It was a great time and way more ppl than I thought came through. i corralled my close ppl for a group pic and after that everyone had their own fun time Allowing me to Irish exit to partake in some more illicit stuff and I ended my night drunk beyond belief tagging in a train yard w one of my friends I will be celebrating in this style going forward, it was great, and now there are at least a dozen train cars that say “happy 21st birthday Sophia” w my or my friends tag :D ALSO IF NO ONE YAKS ON UR 21st U DIDNT DO IT RIGHT

@phianeversleeps

Jun 7, 2024

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it’s supposed to be fun (turning 21)

happy birthday to me! it’s a little hard to believe that i’m 21 now—even though i’ve technically been an adult for three years now, it seems that the reality is only setting in now, and i can feel that clear divide between teenaged-me and newly adult-me. not quite sure what to make of that. birthdays are always bittersweet, and the last two particularly were filled with melancholy—but i can check this one off as a success since i didn’t even cry! i went to the movie theaters and saw nosferatu (and also bought a theater membership because one of my goals for the new year is to go to the movies as much as possible). i had the best matcha latte of my life. i went home, cut the cake (the most delicious triple chocolate cake, by the way), then watched gladiator ii with my family. nothing flashy by any means, but if there’s one thing this year has taught me, is that it’s the simplest things that bring you comfort. i hope 21 is kinder to me. i’m trying my best to keep my hopes low (since it seems the universe is always conspiring against me), so all i can do is wait and see what it brings me. cheers 🥂

@capricornfairy

Dec 31, 2024

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Turn ur bday party into a cozy craft night

celebrated my bday this weekend as a sober (from alc) girl who loves creating and connecting. this was the best birthday (and one of the best days) I’ve ever had ♥️ highlights: •a homemade disco ball piñata and watching everyone go CRAZZYY on it •portrait drawing station (30 second eye contact then draw!!) •surprise vegan oreo cheesecake •fresh fruit platter (really hit) •temp tat station •strawberry and blackberry thumbprint cookies •lots of joints •beautiful curated playlist (thx my beaut gf betsyhehe) •feeling so so loved •seeing my friends that don’t often create make art and enjoy it!! no judgement or expectations • ending the night dancing to local dj spinning vinyl

@ayanah

Mar 11, 2024

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checking emails at the club

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@radeline

Feb 24, 2024

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nothing has ever not worked out, so long as you‘re trying

even if shit continues to hit the fan, pretty much everyone ends up exactly where they’re supposed to be. you will find a place to live, a job, a lover, friends, etc. just keep going and it will be ok.

@radeline

Jul 17, 2024

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biking just a lil bit drunk

be safe n allat but maybe also let the buzz take you places ??

@radeline

Mar 4, 2024