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talk a little too much and a little too loud. laugh for too long or too hard. don’t worry so much about how everyone’s perceiving you, stop preforming for an imaginary audience, not every interaction needs to be dissected. it’s okay to not always be defensive, tell people you love them, throw all your cards out on the table once in a while - the stakes aren’t always that high.
remembering to get outside of my own silly head and actually live is hard sometimes.
Apr 16, 2024
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literally have to remind myself of this on a daily basis, but seriously, sometimes it’s just about acknowledging that shit is not as serious as it seems and you’re in fact not the center of the universe!! yes, we’re all the main characters of our own lives, but it’s also good to just experience the world by helping others and without thinking that everything is out to personally get you. live laugh love babeyy
Jan 23, 2024
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thinking to yourself that you’d perform the same whether or not people were watching helps me. being kind to yourself and remember when people come to a show they want to have fun and not wanting to see someone fail and mistakes are totally okay. i’ve made mistakes live and played countless shows where something technical and out of my control goes wrong and the crowd is always chill and just supportive. so it’s really getting out of your way and letting yourself do your thing - that said cbd helps sometimes, and microdosing helped me come out of my 4 year live show hiatus post-covid
May 18, 2024
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life is literally just existing, do it how you want too. when I find myself thinking too hard about how I’m presenting myself I try mentally slapping my self out of it by remembering that I’ll never see most of these people again. if I do see them again I remind myself I want them to know me as myself not as a person I curated for them. It’s never that serious, so all we got do is have fun dance and be in the moment.
Aug 11, 2024
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no more 20+ step routines full of products targeting made up issues created by corporations. no more ‘anti-aging’ tags.
less is more.
aging is normal.
Apr 22, 2024
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its not embarrassing at all, everyone actually loves hearing from you at any and all absurd hours of the night for no particular reason at all <33
Apr 14, 2024
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specifically late night after a long shift while I journal and feel all too self important like every other 20 something does
Apr 14, 2024