i'd say, to being content in the moment, this existence is all too frail to constantly be wishing you were somewhere else or the circumstances were different. it might sound easier said than done but the cycle of 'wanting' is never ending. when you're somewhere else you'll be wishing for different things and never fully enjoy/be where you are. i think you can consciously push for certain things to change, and they will, but there's certainly a reason you are where you are right now