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Make it a not too strict rotation - people will appreciate that you r the one that feathers their bed in a smooth way (not financially but emotionally) + you will be the one that has all the infos in your friends group at all times. But never make it a must or see the bad in people if they are not capable of putting the same effort/time in it vice versa atm.
(In the long run this rec, I’m pretty sure, feathers your own bed - give it a try and start a hotline bling on ya homiezzzz 📞 :))
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I have friends all over the place and it’s not enough to just like their shit on social media, it’s good to call every couple of months and just have a life check in.
Mar 19, 2024
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I know we all have our own issues we are dealing with but every now & then reach out to a friend you haven’t heard from in a while to genuinely see how they are doing.
Like don’t just send them a random DM but actually give them a call or visit them. Make the effort. We all are posting our best moments on socials and easily forget that most of life is actually us dealing with shit.
Apr 8, 2024
Tired of running into your best friend at game nights and birthday parties of your mutual friends only to be reminded that you don't make enough time to see each other one-on-one? Invest in a high maintenance ritualized activity together that you MUST do regularly -- for me and my best friend this consists of biweekly gel manicure fills followed by a trip to our favorite diner. Even if we let the gels grow out embarrassingly long, we know we have to go back to fix them one way or the other so this helps motivate us to clear our mutually busy schedules. We're so full after the diner that whatever tasks we would have attempted to complete that day are relegated to some abstract future weekend as we are forced to go back to one of our apartments and digest together. Plus the manicures help us with our BFRB symptoms that focus on our nails and cuticles. :')
Note: If you know of equally high maintenance but less expensive rituals that have a similar sense of time-sensitivity we are all ears.
Apr 1, 2024
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maybe underline a good sequence and add your thought on it. Or return a book and put a little flower in it 🙂↕️ game is game
Apr 22, 2024
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If u ever see one of those rare lemonade stands buy their products, try their products! Even if you’re not thirsty, even if you have smth to drink with you, even if you have to pee - I did not make the rules🙂↔️
support your local lemonade dealer before he looks for a more lucrative product
cheers 🥤 🍋 💦
Apr 27, 2024
whilst eating strawberries directly out of this lil punnet. Makes you forget that its a plastic container you have in front of you + makes you feel connected to the world and nature even if the only thing that really is connected rn is em headphones to your phone! trick yoselfff for the good my g's - spring has arrived!
Apr 9, 2024