Honestly the best way to reinvent yourself is just to live. Being in a new place with new people will expose you to so many amazing things you never would have been aware off if you stayed at home.
Big tip is to just try things, figure out what you like without the pressure of feeling like you have to keep up a performance! try new outfit styles, new hair do, new clubs and hobbies just get out there and experience everything!
Itโs freeing I can promise you. Slightly scary at times but the best thing I was ever told was feel the fear and do it anyway.
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life is literally just existing, do it how you want too. when I find myself thinking too hard about how Iโm presenting myself I try mentally slapping my self out of it by remembering that Iโll never see most of these people again. if I do see them again I remind myself I want them to know me as myself not as a person I curated for them. Itโs never that serious, so all we got do is have fun dance and be in the moment.
Aug 11, 2024
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It is very easy to get in your own head when you want to try something new, or you want to change something in your life. Sometimes the biggest obstacle to doing something is the belief that you aren't allowed to do or be something outside of peoples expectations. Whether its a little thing like getting something different than your usual at a cafe, or something big like changing careers, you need to stop obsessing over invisible rules and expectations and just do it. You're freer than you think you are.
Aug 28, 2024
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I know itโs corny but itโs genuinely so freeing to just do what you like. In the last year I started to really embrace my gender identity especially with my physical appearance. Being able to freely dress as you please and express yourself is so incredibly freeing. My confidence has sky rocketed. Being willing to express yourself regardless of societal pressure to appear a strict way. Be out there be bold!!!
Jan 28, 2025
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specifically the ones that hang over water, like when they hang over a river or a canal. LOVE!
Apr 15, 2024
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dont know if it would be classed as an indie film but genuinely makes me re think they way i live my life everytime i watch it. im literally going to get a tattoo for this film
Apr 17, 2024