The thing that irks me the most about it is that people rarely ever know they’re doing it on purpose/mean it fr. It’s very very very annoying and I get hit with one of these bitch ass “actually” statements bout every other day.
Ex: “Wait, that’s actually so helpful!”
— My student who came and got help in my office hours
“You’re actually really well read.”
— Someone in the same cohort as me in our English Literature PhD program
