Ive been on T for awhile now and get read as a cis man most of the time. I generally wear long shorts, hoodies, open shirts with tees etc. When out with mates at safer spaces, I wear small crop tops with baggy pants, mesh shirts, building up to body suits I want to be more femme presenting and have fun with my outfits generally, but I've moved to a small town from London and I don't feel safe or comfortable doing that in public here.
May 6, 2024
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Maybe not actively badly but at least not in an exciting way. I work long shifts and late nights and do a lot of walking at work so I usually wear a variant of comfy jeans, trainers and a jumper. And when you get to hour 10 the makeup and hair situation is just abysmal tbh. Anyway dressing simply at work is fine by me because when you decide to put even a little bit of effort in every single person you work with will lose their minds. I went to see a show yesterday (I work in a music venue) wearing a mini skirt and received approximately 800 compliments and now my ego is boosted for the next 30 business days.
Apr 20, 2024
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black boots/sneakers that I don’t mind getting scuffed up like timbs/goretex converse when it’s cold out, or adidas superstars, black straight leg or slim jeans, black t shirt/flowy button up. This is usual club fare for me
If I’m at a restaurant I always wear a white or preppy blue button up, dark jeans or slim chinos + brown boot or loafer
I dress to blend and go with something pedestrian rather than statement pieces I guess but this is kind of my personal style, I don’t say much with going out outfits
Side note I got heavy into personal style and fashion in high school and was severely online but sidelined for millennial gen fashion trends, I think this is why I’m aggressively anti anti fit and need a slim pant
Jul 23, 2024
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It’s comfier and Ive noticed people have stopped asking if they can “work in” to the machine I’m using.
Jan 27, 2024
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I have these little beeswax candles that have a lil holder They burn for exactly 20 minutes. I set one up and a lamp, and do a small crafting task with a hot drink.
May 5, 2024
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My window is open and I can smell the sea on the breeze coming through. Every now and then, there is a small flash of white bellies in the night sky as gulls fly overhead. I'm not super close to the sea, but high enough to see a small moon dipped crescent of it and the little flickering light of a cruise ship. Cliffs reach out to the left, peppered with the glow of other people still awake at 2AM.
May 6, 2024
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Been sick with flu for 5 days. Highly recommend when in the midst of it:
Self face and neck massages throughout the day with a nice oil, including ears!
Steam bath for your face and ears,
Very gentle stretching during the day so your muscles don't get too tense if you're lying down lots and resting.
Lots of hydration constantly,
Fresh air if possible at home.
May 6, 2024