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just judging from the way I am with my dog and how little respect he has for me I have no backbone or ability to assert authority and I would probably just give up right away. I also have had very little experience in my life dealing with children. This is why Iām not a mother I donāt feel that I am ready yet to handle even one child on so many levels (I know people say that nobody is ready before they get there and that parenthood in itself is a transformative experience Iām not here to debate that oneā¦)
May 6, 2024
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Having an online audience of any kind or a patreon is a huge responsibility, but I highly recommend making your way towards the goal of eventually having or making children. Iām a dada to a 2.5 year old little boy, named Dashiell (Dash) - with our little girl Meadow set to arrive in August. This is by far the hardest group project Iāve ever been a part of - I wonāt mention the endless list of things we all see when millennials talk about how tired they are, or how their boobs hurt (mine donāt, but if you have boobs they will hurt bad) - but when he takes my hand and pulls me in the direction he wants to go, or makes fun of something stupid I did in front of him (he has a way of saying āohhh, daaaaddaaaā which just levels me ) - I swear Iāve never felt a bigger or more true love in my entire life. Everything fades, everything dies, except the love of a child. Unless you really fuck with them, be good to your kids and love them a lot. I swear thereās nothing better than this, absolutely nothing. Thereās nothing better than love, I swear.
Mar 17, 2022
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My toddler isnāt at kindergarten level yet and Iām already struggling. When she has her play date during the week (sheās 2.5, her friends are 2 and 4) I legit canāt control three of them. Add in two more humans and give them basic intellect and hand-eye coordination??? I think Iād lay down and let them dog pile me from the start.
May 6, 2024
10/10 experience if youāve got the right partner. Itās like having a little dummy thatās 50% you and 50% your partner.
Nothing like being the ONLY DAD THAT IS OUT & ABOUT BECAUSE I AM A STAY-AT-HOME PARENT FIGHTING OFF TRADITIONAL GENDER ROLES.
Apr 16, 2024
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebodyābe it a relative or one of my best friendsāwas to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too š
Feb 23, 2025
Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ā
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Feb 27, 2025
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Iāve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapidāa critique often rooted in misogynyābut now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretationāpreconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your imageāselfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that thereās another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. Itās refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, Iāve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentionalāsomething that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. Iāve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? Itās a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024