Don't be so romantic that you overlook red flags. Don't be so cynical that you fault someone on their every little flaw. Be open to new things because you might not know what you're looking for. And always, once you swear off love is the exact time when you find that one relationship.
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If there was no danger around I know that I would be completely capable of giving myself away blindly to love, but realistically that would have a fucked up end so keeping an eye on the red flags and on my boundaries
May 19, 2024
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i wouldn't say it’s love without a healthy mix of romance and cynicism. ultimately you in your heart of hearts know how you truly feel and it’s for you to choose to chase. there often isn’t a right time, maybe the right time is now?
May 14, 2024
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romantic gestures (grand or small, whatever you’re into) balanced with honesty, understanding, acceptance, patience, communication and trust. compromise is important too but within reason! you shouldn’t compromise to the point where you lose yourself or feel like you’re settling for the sake of love and the person you love shouldn’t want that either. also, a lot of people want to be in a relationship for the sake of company and companionship and fail to see the other as their own person. so have standards, even if that means you won’t be in a relationship right away. love means being able to be an individual and appreciated as such. love should not be your identity, your identity should be present in how you love. i don’t know i have a very practical but fantastical approach…maybe it’s my taurus venus. personally i fancy a little fun and humor as well. if i can’t be silly with my lover i don’t want it.
May 14, 2024
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Something about getting into those fresh sheets that smell like laundry detergent just feels better
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It's the absolute cutest thing in the world, warms my dead heart
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If the voice in your head is being too mean ask it if it would talk to someone you love this way. My internal monologue can be a 💩 and this sometimes can help it be more constructive
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