even if it isn’t 100% your thing, letting them show you their passion and being happy to engage with it makes a Nice Time for all
bonus points if you’re long distance and it gives you a reason to hop on the discord together a bit more often
sometimes i like to do this thing w my friends where ill be like “lets play a game where you describe in detail all the things you adore ab me and then ill do the same for you and we’ll go back and forth” my fave party game
i really like collaging with my partner. it's goofy and sort of improvisational and u don't have to be so focused on it that u can't chat. fun to just slice n glue
step 1: learn it
step 2: plan to move there
step 3: fall in love in a completely different country and learn that language instead, completely overriding the language you just learned
on second thought just skip to step 3