Rec | MY NAME WAS ALMOST JAVIER

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Rec'd on 🗒️ how do you feel about your name? what other names do you think would be fitting for you?

My parents picked Aidan instead bc they believed in nominal determination. That is, name driven outcomes and the hypothesis that names influences outcomes. My name began with A as did my siblings because my parents thought: names beginning in A are kindergarten line leaders -> at the top of lists for classroom attendance -> at the top of the class as far as success and high achieving when we graduate. This mindset put a lot of undue stress on me and my siblings but I do love my name and don't think I’d have anything different, Aidan suits me well

@aidanaguirre

Jun 7, 2024

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