I’m really not ready to join the mid-20s club this year 😖 I really hope aging becomes sexy for everyone so I can stop feeling like my value will decline as a femme person as I age 🥲
Aug 3, 2024

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happy birthday
Oct 14, 2024
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chloeallen eeee thank you sm!!
Oct 15, 2024
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!!!
Oct 14, 2024
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mossyelfie omg thank you 💗
Oct 15, 2024
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Firstly, you’re in the same bday week as my mom, brother, MIL, and SIL 🥰 Secondly, do not fear aging. I’m going thru all those feelings rn because on top of being mid 30’s I’m freshly postpartum and I did not in fact dodge the cultural messaging. But here’s something I always come back to: my mother and aunts have always been the most beautiful women to me. None of them have ever been “perfect.” It’s easy with the way social media is right now to think everyone is flawless but it truly is filters and lies. You will grow and change and so much of your beauty will come from within (truly). There’s so much that is so awesome about being older that has nothing to do with looks. You will continue to grow in your badassery!!!
Aug 3, 2024
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mossyelfie 🥹💕 this is so lovely!!!
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