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sometimes it’s alright to feel terrible and stressed and cry for a while and then eat a bit and feel alright about things
Aug 8, 2024
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sometimes i feel really bad because i feel like i‘m too emotional about certain things that may appear to be really objectively insignificant or small to most people, but then i have to remind myself of this. it’s okay to feel things deeply and to give yourself time to process them. sometimes i’ll end up with my whole day ruined because of something banal, but i think the only reason why i feel guilty about this is because there’s an expectation that we need to keep pushing and keep going all the time. but its okay to take a day off! stay at home! be with friends! be alone! do something that will make you feel good instead and try again tomorrow! this statement is obviously true for good things as well - if you try making small positive changes to how you spend your day that will result in a better day… or at least it should… i feel like my mood changes really easily and really often and that can be hard to deal with sometimes but then i have to remind myself it’s okay and even if i can’t always control these things i’m in control of if/how i let myself process them
Jan 13, 2025
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give yourself some time and space to feel every emotion as it comes and name it - accepting this is hard but you should just be honest with how you feel. Don’t fall for the trap of wallowing or self pitying too long but do enable yourself to be emo for as long as it feels right
Feb 16, 2024
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I truly believe the only way to appreciate the times that life feels good is to have some designated wallowing time a couple times a month. What I mean by this is just letting yourself feel like a piece of shit and getting through it all anyways. Right now I feel like garbage but my routine continues - I just do it WHILE feeling my feelings. Repression and avoidance is as stupid as holding ur hand in front of your face to shield from a rainstorm. Let all flow like water baby ✌️🌧
Apr 2, 2024
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Jan 20, 2025
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i love a person with teeth like a half transformed werewolf
Jul 9, 2024
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i’m needing to remind myself that being odd and dressing uniquely is not a bad thing. going back to university and not knowing anyone in my classes while also showing up in a full tweed suit or a tetris cardigan or a long brocade jacket is okay. don’t let the uniqueness leave you just because people give you strange looks.
be more like the girl that dresses in head to toe lolita coords every day. or the guy that came to class dressed as soulja boy for no particular reason. get weird with it!!
Sep 2, 2024