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if you grew up being a people pleaser like me, it can be so damn hard to set boundaries. but it was so great when I finally realized I simply didn’t have to say yes to everything/everyone.
it was wild. blew my mind. I highly recommend.
Aug 8, 2024
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Save ”yes” for what you excites you, interests you, or is at the very least within your capacity. Not every “yes” needs to be enthusiastic but it should be authentic.
Some people have no trouble telling others “no” but it’s taken me a lot of practice. I’ve had to realize that my friends and family love me and value our relationship beyond any single request. Love isn’t transactional like this — or it shouldn’t be, at least.
Anyone you can’t say ”no” to is a walking red flag.
Nov 29, 2024
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Do it! Say no! It’s hard but things do not depend on you as much as you’re thinking they might! It’s not that serious. Disappoint people. Stay home. Ignore messages. Do what you wanna do
Feb 8, 2024
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To plans, to people, to myself. Boundaries. Enforced.
Feb 9, 2024
Top Recs from @rizkillla
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wish me luck!!!!!!!!(i'm so nervous)!!!!!!!!
Mar 5, 2025
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dress with intention and do everything for your inner child. my 15-year-old self would fucking love my style today.
everything is so algorithmic these days and everyone dresses the same. define your own style identity outside of online influence. look through film, music, old magazines, fashion books, and find people/runway collections/characters whose styles resonate with you.
study how people throughout history have communicated with their style. (start with lil' kim!)
journal about your style journey throughout your life and think about why you dressed the way you did and how it made you feel. ask yourself how you want to dress moving forward for where you wanna go in your life.
study runway collections and learn about the designers' intentions with the stories they're telling through their creative work. when you finally purchase a piece you've appreciated for years instead of impulse-buying a bunch of fast fashion clothes, it's so fulfilling.
styling is a skill and you'll continue to develop it throughout your life. it's a journey, not a destination.
Sep 14, 2024
why would you doubt yourself when you know you’re that bitch (or whatever empowering term you prefer)
you know how many genuinely mediocre people went really far in life bc they had delusional self-belief? and you’re as dope as you are doubting yourself??? stop it!
Jun 26, 2024