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BEING OKAY WITH BEING ALONE

@sandym

Jun 11, 2024

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Isolation

I am starting to worry that I enjoy my own solitude too much. Rarely going out, I don't feel a need to socialize, make new friends, and dating seems like a risk. A true quality connection make me happy and feel fullfed but how do I get back to a place of wanting that? Being alone just gets easier and easier. whomp whomp

@_noiah

Apr 23, 2024

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Being alone is more than ok.

First thing is that being alone is not just ok but the best thing ever, you get to discover yourself : - Hobbies you like reading/ drawing/playing guitar/watching documentaries/hiking/cycling/etc… - Setting boundaries : when you are alone you will tend to get know yourself more, what do you like in people, what behaviours you don’t like, respecting your own time, etc… - Self development: switching careers, studying something new, learning a language, etc… How to be okay with it ? first thing to do is to try it, don’t over think it, just do it, being alone doesn’t mean being lonely at all. Besides wasting money, think of your energy, being burnt out could be a result of your energy being drained by people, it doesn’t mean that the people you hang out are bad but your inner self might need to just sit in silence, even going to a coffeeshop alone sitting with your headphones on while reading/crafting/sketching or even just watching tiktok could be helpful to reset the energy.

@la9atate

Jan 11, 2025

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Engels on Gender relations

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thought fo today

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@computerwife

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sober 2+ months

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