On weekdays I finish work at 6:00 pm because I set my schedule to start at 10:00 am. Then I walk my dog Benny and try to squeeze in yoga for 20-40 minutes if I can manage to not be lazy. I usually eat dinner between 8:00 and 9:00 pm and then I play scent games with Benny if heās being crazy and still has too much energy and I watch YouTube videos. I make sure the windows and doors are locked and turn off any lights, then I water floss, brush my teeth, take a hot bath, languish, wash and moisturize my face, turn on my heated blanket and get into bed by likeā¦ midnight or 1:00 pm usually. The weekends are pretty much the same without the working part
Sep 8, 2024
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Exercise or restorative/yin yoga, playing with my dog, writing, watching a movie (The Piano Teacher tonight for an upcoming sexy femcel movies/not at all sexy sexy movies episode of my podcast š«¦), reading, taking hot bubble baths, eating good food. Iām also a bit of a night owl with a flexible schedule so I start work at about 10:00 am and stay up pretty lateā¦
Jan 16, 2025
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itās always a bit different and a bit the same, iām trying to be consistent so this is what i do.
work ends at around 5 p.m. so iām home at 6. i usually get myself a little treat or go for a walk. then i walk my dog Freddie and then have tea with my family.
then this is the part where iām not so consistent. if i have a show iām currently into iāll forget about everything and just watch it until itās midnight. so iām trying not to do that. at around ten iāll have a shower and do my skincare and stuff. then i just go to bed, read or watch something, maybe meditate.
Sep 8, 2024
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I work late so usually im going to bed as soon as i get home but I def don't want to go to bed with the vibe if the work evening still with me.
Ive made a habit of getting a quick shower in to wash off the stress and in a clean pair of pajamas. I set up my evening YouTube video or a movie ive seen before-low stakes in terms of attention, its for background noise. Make some tea or make sure i at least have a glass of water and a small snack if i haven't eaten yet. Then I mosy my way to bed putting my dog to bed in his bed and take my cat upstairs to bed with me and get comfortable and kinda hope the sleep takes over in a timely manner.
Feb 27, 2025
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebodyābe it a relative or one of my best friendsāwas to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too š
Feb 23, 2025
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Feb 27, 2025
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Iāve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapidāa critique often rooted in misogynyābut now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretationāpreconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your imageāselfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that thereās another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. Itās refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, Iāve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentionalāsomething that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. Iāve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? Itās a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024