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doing what you said you were gonna do...goated and rare behavior tbh...
9/10 times you're gonna be glad you made yourself go to the thing you said you would go to even though you don't really feel like it now that it's 30 minutes before you're supposed to leave...just go.
being reliable >>>>>
Sep 16, 2024
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Tell a bunch of people you’re going to do it. Boom, now you’re accountable. But then obviously you still gotta follow through, that is the important part. No problem though right? Or else….
Feb 6, 2025
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stop making excuses and just do it
Jan 25, 2025
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lists are nice but have you ever declined the lure of delayed gratification in favor of just getting some shit done and out the way
Jan 29, 2024
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i almost always have "avoid highways" turned on when using google maps so i can see whats goin' on in the city. highways are soulless and i avoid i them as much as i can.
if you've got the time, it's best way to see a sight you might've never seen otherwise. i've found lots of good signs, art, and restaurants this way. makes having to drive somewhere a little more interesting because heck....life's about the journey. ❤️
Jan 23, 2024
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always thought i had to wait for my life to be amazing to start writing it down...turns out it was already pretty cool and i regret all the stuff i can't remember anymore. also just a helpful mental practice to get your thoughts out of your brain and on some paper so you don't have to worry about holding them all in there. spending extra time thinking about positive moments in your life is also a good way to help your brain default to positive thinking more often, like building a muscle. i make it fun by cutting and pasting a bunch of pictures and stuff so it feels like a craft instead of a chore, otherwise i won't really do it.
Jun 30, 2024
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i have a fear of reaching out or making plans because i am afraid of bothering people (insane i know) and being rejected :') however i typically vocalize this explicitly to people i care about so they don't feel like i hate them and i am trying hard to practice initiating stuff (exposure therapy). the times i have initiated plans or organized a function have gone rly well though so...i dont know. its hard for me to get over. i think most people are also just thinking about themselves....as the previous reply said. i want to be an initiator really bad.
Jun 29, 2024