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like being in a group of people with no one else but those people. reduced performative, authenticity, rambunctiousness, great time! i've found that public parks late at night is a good medium for this
Sep 18, 2024
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I don't mean going to get groceries or Starbucks or something. I mean a bar or a movie or a diner-- places where you're expected to have company. Can either highlight some areas you need to improve psychologically or can make you feel totally sublime and alive
Jan 26, 2024
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Being one-on-one with another person is so intimidating and intense, and usually I can only maintain it for so long before it feels like work. I like centring it around an activity, so if you don't have anything to say it's less awkward, but every once in a while the right person at the right time comes along and I feel comfortable enough in their presence that I actually crave unstructured one-on-one hangouts. Finding the right person is tough, but thankfully there's enough people in my life who I prefer spending time with as part of a larger group, and that's totally fine as long as they don't mind either :)
Jan 31, 2025
because you just might meet some of the coolest people and you won’t have to worry about someone else’s social threshold
Jan 25, 2024
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if you think you’re the smartest person in your friend group you’re weird and annoying. the best friendships come out of mutual awe and respectability. be friends with people who make you want to know more things.
Jan 29, 2024
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i will never be in a situationship in the same way i will never be in the land of oz--it's just not real. i think using the word doesn't let you self-reflect in a way that is truly helpful. i was telling my friend about the awkwardness of seeing an exhook up in a relationship bc i thought we had mutual feelings and she said "oh your exsituationship" and i thought (for the first time) no, we had clear boundaries i just got my hopes up. my point is that instead of using situationship as a catch-all for not quite dating or wtv failed prospect, take it as a moment to reflect on what exactly went wrong. idk if this is profound or not
Jan 30, 2025
i’m averaging 14,000 steps a day for the past year, why? i walk everywhere. at one point i was averaging 16,000 (this is my flex). you get to explore a city and now when people ask me for directions i can actually tell them bc i’ve gotten really good at knowing where i am. if it takes less than an hour for me to walk from a to b, i will walk. if i have enough time i’ll walk 2+ hours just to see someone. just put on a good playlist/pod and go go go!!
Jan 29, 2024