Oversized brown houndstooth sweater coat I’ve had for like five years, funky vintage metallic gold sweater I’ve had for ten years, wool men’s fedora I stole from costumes when I played a male gangster in a middle school play, big scarves, sheer black pantyhose, black boots, black dresses, black blazers… maybe get back into some aggressive pattern clashing idk I’m feeling quirky
Sep 19, 2024
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Tees, sweaters, turtlenecks
Jean jacket adorned with patches that I’ll probably die in
Wide legged jeans I cropped
Docs + above ankle heeled boots
Some new things I acquired tho and am excited to try:
Loafers
Flare jeans that make me feel cunty in the best way
Some looser fitting jeans that I normally wouldn’t go for because I’m short but these ones work!
I’m on a mission to thrift jeans of every color, so that’ll add some fun to my autumn wardrobe as well 💃 I seem to have no full body pictures of myself since like, 2020 to show how I style any of this, but you probably can picture it pretty easily
Sep 19, 2024
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ultimate autumnal outfit
it’s always 2008 somewhere
Oct 27, 2024
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love pieces like this with a story and sentimental value. I’ve gotten rid of things before like this and only regretted it.
First thought was to lean into the 80’s and think about shows like Absolutely Fabulous or Golden Girls. Pair with bigger pants, a low heel, and lots of jewelry. Colorwise, think you have to go white/black and let the jacket be the focus, or the opposite and just maximize color so the black collar isn’t so dominant. Wear it open with a more revealing/lace top.
for more casual, think punk. Your mini skirt and tights sound amazing with black boots, band tshirt/top underneath and silver jewelry.
Jun 5, 2024
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
Feb 23, 2025
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Feb 27, 2025
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I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024