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recently going through getting over the love of my life (lol) and i have been trying to do this thing where every time i feel like i am going to be alone for the rest of my life, similar thoughts along those lines and end up just getting really really sad, i make lists. Lists of the things i need to do, i want to do, things i never did before and can do now.
i also remember i was having a bad spell of losing a lot of my things and the breakup hit me during this time so I made a list of all the bad things that happened to sort of complain which is when my friend recommended me to make a list of the good things
so now my favourite list is “good things are always happening to me” which is basically noting down something nice that happened daily and i think that really helps on days that i feel really disappointed and hopeless.
Oct 19, 2024
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I’m a big lover of self-affirming lists. if I feel unloveable I write lists of reasons I love other people and then which traits I also share with that list. If I feel lost and not myself I write lists of things I love. If I feel I have no stable self I write a list of things ive done or felt since childhood. you say you have no real hobbies or interests, but you’ve already been writing a huge lists of things youre interested in or feel passionate about here on PI.FYI! you have tastes, interests, passions! Sometimes you just need to see it written down, and sometimes you need to start writing the list to realise that actually writing the list would be impossible because there’s so many tiny and huge things you like or do.
Mar 11, 2024
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- top 5 songs of each month!
- quote log.. so many words of wisdom shared on this platform i need to collect them all
- affirmations! or alternatively, ins and outs for the new year!
- social bucket list for 2025... super big on hanging out with my friends so really just a list of things i want to do with my friends - probably will divide the list by season
- on that note, seasonal to-do lists!
- cravings.. i've kept a list of my cravings this past year and it's been really interesting to look back on LOL
- worries of the week/month. i've maintained this list for a while, and it's rly comforting to look back on it and realize that i overcame all those worries + it's a grounding reminder that everything really does work out
Dec 23, 2024
not just to do’s, but those too! i keep running lists of things. Like, “things my bestie somehow doesn’t know about“ and “things i like about my partner“ and “this would make a good gift“
i always come back to my lists, and i am always delighted by what i find
Apr 24, 2024
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thank you user Chris on spotify for the nicest snoopy jazz playlist to listen to while snuggling in your sheets when it’s raining and the temperature is perfect
Oct 15, 2024
Feb 7, 2025
i love saying not my circus not my monkey and letting it GO!!
the best thing about time is that it passes🪞
i can feel my frontal lobe developing (lowkey) these days, learning so much about myself and what it’s like to go through life aaaaaa excited n seated for everything that’s about to come 🛋️💡💿
Oct 15, 2024