I can’t speak to the cultural guilt you’re feeling, but I have a lot of experience with knowing I should be doing something to improve an aspect of my life, and then finding it very difficult to take action.
It is possible to become the person you want to be, so do not give up!
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Envision the future you that you want to become and then reverse engineer what that transformation could look like, breaking it down into small steps and starting with the ones that are easiest for you to do right now. it’s much less overwhelming to accept that you don’t have to do everything at once! And as you start to accomplish little things, brick by brick, you can feel better about yourself and see it as proof that you are in fact capable of improving! Reward yourself for hitting certain milestones.
Change can and will be scary and that’s a good thing because it means you’re leaving the familiarity of your comfort zone. Best of luck!!
Dec 9, 2024
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is hard no matter what it is but so rewarding. i had to have a difficult conversation tn that i’ve been dreading and anxious about all day and now i feel so much better that i’m on the other side of it. you can do it!!
Apr 9, 2024
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I’m working through this right now and even though I’m terrified I’m just happy that I’m taking the steps to get where I wanna be. It’s a gift to fail. It’s means you’re trying.
Mar 6, 2024
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The occupation persists, the oppression persists, the torture persists.
The occupiers are psychotic and their work is never finished.
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Give people like jilly a break!
I actually practice what I preach on this one 😇
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