i feel like social media has made us so self-aware of our actions/habits/behaviors. we are thinking of what is cool or trendy or desirable. we are too afraid to be cringe! to be stupid! to be lame!
the best community i have found is the people who are not afraid to like what they like & are proud of it. do the stuff you always wanted to try. the people will follow.
Nov 24, 2024
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true! it takes courage to be yourself - and even more to express it. once a loved virtue, uniqueness is quickly dismissed today. wish we werenât set in moulds like popsicles đ„¶
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it's actually better to be weird! confuse people, be ugly, passionate, be YOU. i spent so much time trying to be perfect and liked by everyone and that way i just got a lot of shallow connections because i refused to let people see the real me and get to really know me. it's silly to chase perfection as it donesn't exist and being weird is better than being boring :p
Dec 30, 2024
My favorite thing in getting to know new people is finding out the things they enjoy that seem a bit out of character. I think itâs comforting and a bit sexy when not everything that they like has to be âcoolâ for them to really enjoy it. Being self-assured and knowing your worth is hot.
After all, life is too short to try and shape yourself around a mould that doesnât truly resonate with you. Just enjoy the things that bring you joy without caring if they are basic or lame to others. you can enjoy the band that everyone hates, enjoy the movies that people think are overrated, and wear the shirt that went out of style 5 years ago.
true authenticity is a rare trait, always has been. Itâs like striking gold when you find that inner peace to just be yourself, regardless of how cringy others find it. Find the peace to like what you like without shame.
Feb 20, 2025
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i think now more than ever, we live in a society where it is normalized to judge others for not following the âtrendsâ or âsocially acceptableâ things, which has become a big problem for the coming generations. i think people should be their unique, authentic, selves and shouldnât be afraid of such, because who actually cares ? i mean, yeah, people will probably judge you for it and say rude things, but people will do that anyways, so why not have them say it about something YOU know you love. as long as you know that you like it, then it shouldnât matter what that one girl thinks about it, because at the end of the day, itâs just someoneâs opinion, not an actual truth. if you wanna dress all funky and different, do it !! and do so with confidence .
Dec 28, 2024
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this is only a habit i have picked up in the last year, but it has made a world of difference. i will write about things that i am thinking about or stuff i need to do or just chronicle my day. i just find it very grounding or like a reset to my thought processes.
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