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I encourage you to rip into me if you disagree because shying away from disagreement is what??👂 OUT! IN • Reading books • Folk-rock and folk-country • Doing stuff on the computer and not your phone like god intended (social media, online shopping, etc.) • Clothes-wise: colored tights, mini skirts, scarves • Being late to work • Talking to strangers, in the same vein: making new friends • Writing • Taking the bus and the train • Saying what you need to say and doing so succinctly • Unionizing your workplace OUT • Boring convos with coworkers • Wearing clothes you don’t really like • Minnesota nice (see also: being nice is not always the same as being kind) • VAPING OHHH MY GOD. WRAP IT UP!!! • Caring about makeup, unless you’re a drag queen or a goth. Like you get 15 minutes max • Shying away from disagreement • Fast casual chain restaurants - go eat local and sit down for a while • Paw Patrol (copaganda) • Ass kissing • Being under 25
Dec 23, 2024

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Saying things succinctly is in for sure. And for that reason, I put video essays on my outs list don’t hate me
Dec 24, 2024
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annabellemonc no you’re correct, I never watch video essays
Dec 24, 2024
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Im 23 and like my makeup routine with way too many extra steps and fast food and chatting about meaningless things with my coworkers….now what🤨
Dec 24, 2024
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imkhushi we have to fight in the back alley tonight. does 6:00 work for you
Dec 24, 2024
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erikrikrika yeah just added to my gcal
Dec 24, 2024
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please god i hope 2025 is the year vaping ends
Dec 24, 2024
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being under 25 is so real
Dec 24, 2024
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virgobbgeet full disclosure I’m 24 for another month so I’m a massive hypocrite for that one
Dec 24, 2024
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caring about makeup unless you’re doing drag or goth is so real. I can’t make myself care about optimizing my appearance by scraps anymore unless it’s for an actual *look*. otherwise, why spend my time on my face?
Dec 23, 2024
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care no seriously, because here I am spending time making myself look… somewhat “better?” When I already look fine. we all already look fine. A few times a year you have to show up looking good, but outside of that we could all certainly use that time in our day more fulfillingly
Dec 23, 2024
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Ins: ·      Free museums ·      Loving your friends loudly ·      Growing food at home ·      Late nights making art ·      Photobooths ·      Tipping your servers and delivery drivers well ·      Listening to a single album or artist at a time ·      Movies filmed on 35mm ·      NPR ·      AO3 ·      Reading multiple books at once ·      Snail mail ·      Having a signature color ·      Reading the credits ·      Physical media ·      Local coffee shops and bookstores ·      Occasional drunk cigarettes while still claiming you’re not a smoker ·      House shows ·      Criterion channel ·      Handmade gifts ·      Third places ·      Media literacy ·      Eating whole apples Outs: ·      Podcasts about nothing ·      Labeling everything as a hyper-specific aesthetic ·      Overconsuming media to the point where you aren’t even paying attention to or understanding the content (I’m looking at you 150 goodreads goals, letterboxd warriors, and 3x audiobook listeners) ·      Intellectual snobbery ·      Capitalism ·      Depop resellers ·      Vegans who judge non-vegans ·      Trending audios that have absolutelye nothing to do with the video ·      Not knowing how to cook ·      Using ai, even when you’re bored or stuck ·      Fighting to the death over celebs or authors who have no clue who you are ·      Hating popular things just because they’re popular (you don’t look cool!) ·      Nickle and diming your friends on venmo ·      Dating apps ·      Spotify's pre-made playlists ·      Performative activism ·      Oversharing online (please bring back secrets and keep your kinks at home) ·      Monetizing your hobbies ·      Colleen hoover ·      Clean versions of songs ·      Refusing to have strong opinions on anything ·      Making smoking pot your entire personality ·      Vaping ·      Self help books
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not finished… ins ~ • personal style • being upfront • live music • physical media • crafts/personalizing everything • trusting your intuition • blue eyeshadow (in a 1960s way) • niche playlists • talking to strangers • pocket-sized notebooks • pattern mixing • spontaneous trips • messy hair • doing it for the memoir
outs ~ • being late • black and white mentality • being embarrassed • oversharing • toxic friendships • diet soda • vaping • impulsive shopping • dating apps • letting myself spiral • doing it for the plot • fear of being perceived
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INS/ trend forecast  -funk/disco music revival  -late 60s- early 80s style comeback  -red  -face masks  -peel off polaroids  -stripes & florals  -physical media, DVDs  -adventuring in your home town  -tortoiseshell pattern> cheetah/leopard  -medieval revival brought into the mainstream  -gold>silver  -shopping mall revival  -signet rings  -meditation  -having your own thoughts  -sport: climbing (outfits worn as everyday style too) -handwritten recipes  -recording studios  -loungewear: grey varsity sweaters and black thongs  -honesty and kindness  -petitions and marches for things you believe in  -making the most of alone time  OUTS -men wearing carabiners  -embarrassment  -people taking to me about their situationships (leave me alone pls! i don’t have advice)  -flat shoes (sambas/ballet flats)  -speaking too loudly  -smoking (& vaping)  -overconsumption  -letting the far right take over  -drinking at every event  -driving lessons (only until they go right) 
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Jan 19, 2025

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