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We did it kids… I’ve said before that I like to take my time to let my decor shape itself. Wall art is coming eventually but for now my office is a beautiful multi-functional workspace, creative studio, and guest bedroom
Dec 28, 2024
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Our bed fills up our entire bedroom, and we don’t have a formal dining table, so this room has become a space where we do our morning stretching, listen to records on weekends, and display things that fit only here
Feb 7, 2025
I only recently dedicated my nesting process to my bedroom, I put a lot of effort into the other spaces of my lofted studio. Bought some sheer curtains from the thrift store and kinda just started pinning it in place.
I saw I painting of a moon on TikTok and decided to recreate it for myself.
I wrapped my hand-me-down 7-year old viney monstera around my bed frame and bough twinkle lights to drape within the aforementioned fabric.
So far really liking it. Working on some felt stuffed stars to suspend from the drapery.
Taking suggestions for the walls!
Jan 29, 2025
Pack the walls. All that white space of a gallery wall ? That’s what the kids call aura farming. No good. All art galleries should be cramming the walls. They should all also have weird chairs and couches. And serve coffee and cocktails and beer. And pre rolls. At least 1 cat should be roaming around. There should be a chess board and a pong table as well. Every guest who walks in gets to add 1 song to the que. The gallery should be using part of their funds to pay someone weird and well-read to hang out and say things. If possible, there should be a sky light
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My dad teases me about how when I was a little kid, my favorite thing to do when I was on the landline phone with somebody—be it a relative or one of my best friends—was to breathlessly describe the things that were in my bedroom so that they could have a mental picture of everything I loved and chose to surround myself with, and where I sat at that moment in time. Perfectly Imperfect reminds me of that so thanks for always listening and for sharing with me too 💌
Feb 23, 2025
Schedule sent my resignation email for the morning, effective immediately ✅💅
Feb 27, 2025
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I’ve been thinking about how much of social media is centered around curating our self-image. When selfies first became popular, they were dismissed as vain and vapid—a critique often rooted in misogyny—but now, the way we craft our online selves feels more like creating monuments.
We try to signal our individuality, hoping to be seen and understood, but ironically, I think this widens the gap between how others perceive us and who we really are. Instead of fostering connection, it can invite projection and misinterpretation—preconceived notions, prefab labels, and stereotypes. Worse, individuality has become branded and commodified, reducing our identities to products for others to consume.
On most platforms, validation often comes from how well you can curate and present your image—selfies, aesthetic branding, and lifestyle content tend to dominate. High engagement is tied to visibility, not necessarily depth or substance. But I think spaces like PI.FYI show that there’s another way: where connection is built on shared ideas, tastes, and interests rather than surface-level content. It’s refreshing to be part of a community that values thoughts over optics.
By sharing so few images of myself, I’ve found that it gives others room to focus on my ideas and voice. When I do share an image, it feels intentional—something that contributes to the story I want to tell rather than defining it. Sharing less allows me to express who I am beyond appearance.
For women, especially, sharing less can be a radical act in a world where the default is to objectify ourselves. It resists the pressure to center appearance, focusing instead on what truly matters: our thoughts, voices, and authenticity. I’ve posted a handful of pictures of myself in 2,500 posts because I care more about showing who I am than how I look.
In trying to be seen, are we making it harder for others to truly know us? It’s a question worth considering.
Dec 27, 2024