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Do you delete the traces of your old relationships?
I don’t, I never have. some part of me wants to hoard the love I once had. It’s kinda a bad thing but if you’re able to, how do you do it?
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yesterday i deleted my message thread with my ex. i had it archived and no reason to look at it anymore yet still found myself doing so. i think ive always wanted to keep everything of anything ever. forever. but its a step to let go completely. im learning that letting go is as important as holding on. so delete that old conversation that just sits there giving you the option to remember. you can remember other ways:) the memories wont ever be gone
Jul 29, 2024
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I remember coming across my grandmothers wedding photos once when I was a wee kid. And it’s never stopped intriguing me. It’s like they lived separate lives. I’ve only known them since I was born and it makes me curious to know who they were as individuals before me.
I stay in the storeroom of my house now, so once every few months I look through all the albums stored here… photos of my parents when they were my age, when they started dating, schooling and having fun.
It’s such a bittersweet feeling.
Feb 15, 2024
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I love stuff and i love hanging onto things. I love that i have a stack of letters my friends and i wrote and passed back and forth in class at 13 years old. I love that i still have the fake menu my best friend and i made when we were 8 for our fake restaurant that only served bug-based dishes. I love that i have a drunk love note scrawled on toilet paper at 3 in the morning in 2012. seemingly meaningless things like this from my past help remind me that I’ve actually led a wonderfully full life despite often feeling like I’ve not done enough.
Jan 29, 2025
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I get crushes on people easy.
I sort of imagine a life with someone only after thinking about them a couple times. right now I have about four crushes, but I think it’s my want of a relationship, so so bad.
Equally I do not admit feelings for people. I would rather encourage someone to get in a relationship with someone else than admit my feelings, it’s like tending to an overgrown garden.
Jan 24, 2025
I used to have a “littlest pet shop” YouTube channel and was curious about others relationship with toys. I still collect toys because I don’t think being an adult means you need to stop.
Jan 5, 2025
Todays photo is an hour late, and I realize that I’m counting on nobody but myself to keep myself accountable. I feel like I‘ve wronged myself, but growth only halts if you don’t let yourself breathe.
Anywho, here’s this ray of sun. I’ve been having trouble fixing my sleep schedule, if anyone’s ever heard of revenge bedtime procrastination, I think I fall victim (or rather punish myself) to it. Any tips on how to overcome it? Somehow I convince myself it’s better to stay up..
Jan 8, 2025